'Its been my experience, that you can nearly always enjoy things if you make up your mind firmly you will. Of course, you must have a sunny soul and not mind a bit of rain here and there... for rain can only bring a rainbow. And no one can help loving a rainbow!'
Always smiling
My Life, Family and things good and bad!!
Tuesday, 6 October 2026
A Favourite.
Friday, 2 October 2026
Oh Dear!
Not all blogs are back to normal and new posts of some are still not showing up on my side bar. And some that I loved have stopped, 'Jabblog,' Jan hasn't written for weeks, hope she is alright, Marie from 'Island Musings' for months, since writing that her husband had been taken ill, so that sounded awful, Djan, 'Eye on the Edge' has stopped since her partner died and 'Down to Earth' decided to stop blogging months ago, and lovely Joanne, 'Cup on the Bus' has died.. whole load of changes in the blog land we know.
They are all part of the blog world I have come to know and love. And it has made me feel sad for them all. I can't remember why I wanted to be part of blogging, and these days I don't have the same enthusiasm I used to have.
Needless to say, yes I'm feeling down. I gained weight this week, I know why, altho we have our food delivered, if we forget something, we pop out. Sometimes it is disastrous and we are tempted and give in to buy cake, altho' this time it was a Chelsey Bun, luxury yoghurts and Currant loaf!! And we ate all in the past week. Now I regret it and feel miserable.
So why do I do this.. years go I decided I was drinking too much and I would stop. And I did, and I did drink a lot every evening. How did I do that? I don't drink any alcohol these days as it affects my bladder and the burning pain is very unpleasant. So why can't I get my eating under control.
Both Dh and myself have decided this is it!! But don't hold your breath for me! However there is no rubbishy stuff in the house, so that's a good start!!
Chrisxx
Wednesday, 30 September 2026
Dame Esther Rantzen
Wednesday, 23 September 2026
Sunshine, a walk and a talk.
I felt so old yesterday, lack of sleep had pushed me into that awful feeling of old age is 'B' awful.
Aches, pain, a bladder problem and insomnia doesn't make life easy. Since we moved here, 5 years ago now, I've not seen my daughter, as it is an awfully long way. I think that's what compounded my mood as its her birthday this weekend.
Suddenly I've really felt old. I had wobbly coming out of our walk in shower. I felt unstable and we talked about a grab bar at the entrance. Then yesterday I realised that I was stepping too far from the edge of the shower, moved nearer and the stepping out was fine.
The sun was shining, so Dh said... 'lets go for a walk and go by the harbour for a decaff coffee this afternoon.' Along the Eastern Prom, where it has been surfaced is excellent for walking, all very flat and even paving, gold in colour and is being called 'the yellow brick' road.
And so we did, parking half way along so it wasn't so far to walk. And we sat facing the harbour with our coffees. A gentleman came and sat at the next table and we spent a very pleasant half hour chatting. He had lived for a while on a narrow boat, so he had some interesting tales to tell.
When we got home, I felt really cheered up. It was just what I needed and we had lamb chops for our evening meal. Perfect end to what turned out to be a lovely day after all.
Chrisxx
Saturday, 19 September 2026
Calm to sleep.
I think I've said before I have trouble sleeping. What is awful about the lack of sleep is that it steals my days and some days I have little or no energy, so fail to do anything.
However I've come across this.....
10 Things to tell yourself before sleeping.
I did my best today and that's enough.
I am allowed to rest without guilt.
Tomorrow is a fresh start.
I am grateful for all the little moments of joy today.
I release all thoughts that no longer serve me.
I am safe, I am loved, I'm at peace.
My body and mind deserve deep rest.
I trust that all is unfolding as it should.
I let go of all stress and welcome calm.
Breath deeply and sleep.
Thursday, 17 September 2026
7 to 70 UP!
I see blogs are up the spout again, which is a real pesk and the reason I gave up my other blog, and this craft blog changed to news items.
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Have you been watching this programme, first started in 1964 when all 12 were seven years old.
Monday, 14 September 2026
REMEMBER!
25 Years, since the horrendous attacks in America.. I don't think anyone reading about it this week, could not be moved by the loss of so many lives. 2977 ordinary every day citizens gone just like that.
I was teaching in a school in Billericay, so didn't know what had happened until the Head rang the school bell to summoned us to the Staff room just after 4:00pm We were advised to go home, as there were messages that London could be next.
Like everyone else when I saw it on TV I found it hard to believe it to be real, and not a film. It was unbelievable, one thing I've always wondered how did the terrorists plan such a clever coordinated attack.. This must have been planned for months before by someone or more, who were very clever.
So to people today who complain about CCTV, Police Stops and Strict Laws, which to some impinge on an individual's way of life, its all there to protect you and me.
Because then there were the London bombings in 2005, more lives lost, more heart ache and more restrictions and check ups where ever you went.
School trips to London for us stopped and people were scared.
Such a dreadful time for everyone.
Chrisxx
Saturday, 12 September 2026
Visitors and a SW meal.
We have had visitors yesterday afternoon. My son, Jonathan and his wife, Jenni, who live in W. Wales but always have have a long weekend here in Porthcawl in their motor home, this time of the year.
Thursday, 10 September 2026
Is this really me??
Our holiday at home resulted in us both having a 2 1/2 pound weight gain. So this week, not only have I kept strictly to the SW food plan, I have been walking.
I love this, altho' some people think you look old using them, it gives me confidence and keeps me upright and with it I can walk and I do! Do you walk?
Monday, 7 September 2026
All done and enough for family too!
We prepared all the ingredients on Saturday afternoon. I peeled the tomatoes, took for ever, even with hot water!








