I know other women my age who are over weight too and think trying to lose weight at our age is silly and you should enjoy all treats at our age.. do you agree with them or do you think at any age you should attempt to lose weight?
Chrisxx
I know other women my age who are over weight too and think trying to lose weight at our age is silly and you should enjoy all treats at our age.. do you agree with them or do you think at any age you should attempt to lose weight?
Chrisxx
We saw Ellie Simmonds win a gold medal in the 2012 Paralympics, so when I saw she was doing a documentary on her birth mother, I wanted to watch it.
She was very emotional at times, so was I watching, as she finds out why her birth mother gave her up for adoption, when she was just ten days old. Born November 11th 1994, her mother had been told quite brutally that her baby had achondroplasia, a common form of dwarfism and that her child would be disabled. She was led to believe that Ellie would be like a circus dwarf, short of stature, flat face, bowed legs and muscular. A single mum on her own, she decided she wouldn't be able to cope.
She was adopted by a couple, who also adopted other children with disabilities and has had a wonderful up bringing in a very happy family unit.
While Ellie was talking on the subject of her birth mother, she never once blamed her for the decision to give her up. In fact when you listen to Ellie talking, she comes over as a really lovely person with a heart of gold.
I loved the programme and then watched the second one, where she is trying to come to the decision if she should have children of her own. She is so honest and open it was very difficult not to weep a few tears with her. The option to have a child via sperm donation, where the donor sperm was normal height was an option explained to her, even that the embryo could be checked, so the implanted embryo does not have any genetic faults.. She decided she wasn't ready to go ahead at the moment. A sad time for her and too difficult a decision and tears fell.
I shed quite a few tears myself watching her. If you haven't seen it, do, its so worth watching. (ITVX)
Chrisxx
When I had to have a bladder catheter, it was very uncomfortable sitting, so I bought this ring, December 7th 2024.
I thought having the hole in it would be ok for the catheter,, well it was awful, it was hard and uncomfortable. So that's what I wrote in the review and so did other people write that it was hard. . It was £19.59 so I just decided to forget the money wasted.. Just another bad buy!Anyway April this year I had an email offering me my money back plus £5.00 I thought it was a scam so forwarded the email to paypal, and their advice was not to change my review, just because the firm had offered me money. So I ignored the emails, which were now arriving every day.
Then last week Paypal contacted me about an issue they said, where I had sold something and the recipient hadn't received it, although they had paid via paypal!! The cushion firm had complained that I hadn't given them what they had paid for! What??
It has taken me all these last few days, via chatting to an AI chat bot to convince Paypal, that its this cushion firm, who have put £25 minus £2.70 transaction fee in my paypal account and emailed me they had!
But when I did check it was a 'pending' amount, so they hadn't actually given me anything.. their emails now were begging ones, along the lines of, 'We're being nice to you and giving you money, you could be nice to us with your review!' I just forwarded all the emails to Paypal.
Eventually Paypal have apologized for the inconvenience of all the messages, as I have been a valued customer for 17 years! And offered me £20 as I will not be getting the refund from the cushion firm. I said no need and refused it.
What a palaver.. lesson learnt, Do not buy anything from China!!
Chrisxx
Isn't this lovely? Its just round the corner from us, so its the post box we use.
I am struggling with my learning Welsh, at the moment. I do 45 mins plus each day practising and doing the exercises. While I'm doing them I remember, but then if I move on I've forgotten some.. Is it so hard or am I just too old to learn? I get confused and unless there is a rule. I guess the words.. I'm good with 'weather' and I can say what I like or what I don't like.
We watch Popol y Cwm, the Welsh every day soap and although we know some of the words, we miss a lot. We've tried watching children's programmes, but when its puppets their lips don't move with the words!
Some one said watch the News, because you already know what its about, so easier?? No its not!
We can get sub titles in Welsh and that makes it so much easier, but that's not conversation.
We have Welsh lessons each Monday morning 9:30 to 12:30 and I always feel absolutely flat after it, so I must be using some 'brain energy.'
I do like the sessions and when we're partnered up, its good to know the younger members of our group are finding it hard too. Once when I was partnered with Will, we had done the required exercise, so decided to try the past tense, so when the Tutor popped into our 'room' we got a 'no no no!!' Will, a young man and I laughed and laughed.
The following week when we were again partnered up.. I said... Peidiwch a'm rhoi mewn trafferth y wythnos hon!! = Don't get me into trouble this week!! So we do have fun and because I did a very small amount of welsh, as a child my pronunciation is good.
What amazes me I can remember French words I learnt in the fifties! But I'm carrying on and still trying... Dw i eisiau i r dysgu cymraig!
Chrisxx
Oh dear I've neglected my blog but we have been very busy in the garden and there are only about 30 plants left to plant out.
We shouldn't, but we buy books all the time, I say shouldn't because we buy because we like to, rather than we don't have anything to read. But isn't that like all people who love to read.
These are the Richard and Judy choices for their Book Club for Spring 2025. We bought all last years and I've 4 still to read, Dh still has about 8 I think. He's reading, ' We All Live Here' by Jojo Moyles at the moment and must be enjoying it, as he keeps bursting out in laughter! I swapped it for 'The Women' as we'd read that and we liked some of Jojo Moyes other books, especially 'The Giver of Stars.' Have you read it, its about the women who took books to women in the wilds of America, on horseback in the 1880s A lovely story of resilience and love, worth a read,Although I attend a slimming group every Friday morning, it is a social gathering too. A group of us called the Coffi Club meet up now and then for coffee ot meals. Last Friday we decided to go for breakfast after the slimming world meeting. The garden centre has a super restaurant and 12 of us booked to go.
I have been for an afternoon tea with the group and we all ate everything, sandwiches, cakes and scones with jam and cream. It was a special occasion as it was someone's birthday, so no food barred.
Friday was just breakfast, so I thought we'd all be making wise choices, I decided a bacon sandwich with whole meal bread, no butter, as this was more or less a slimming world meal.
Ha ha, it wasn't what the rest of the group were choosing. So I changed my mind and had hog roast sausage roll, coleslaw, lettuce and chips!! It was absolutely delicious, the coleslaw was full fat and creamy, I never have that usually and the chips were crispy. I ate slowly and savoured every bite! I didn't have a coffee at that time late morning, I'd never get to sleep, so I had an Elderflower Presse.
I did enjoy my breakfast! I usually just have a banana and 40g of muesli And the chatting and laughter was super too.. roll on the next Coffi Club meal out!
Chrisxx
If you've never had a urinary infection you won't know the added stress you can have along with pain and the need to wee a lot.. there's the anxiety of going somewhere, that might not have a toilet, or being in a position where you can't get to one easily.
The Welsh trains have decided, that in their new built trains, they won't have toilets, to make room for more seats? So that's me not using them, not that I plan going anywhere. People prone to UTIs don't travel usually.
I did go to buy some 'pads.' Omgosh, there are 100s to choose from, and in bulk buys. I spent ages looking and bought some to go for that bladder scan, where you have to arrive with a full bladder. Criky it was like riding a horse between my legs!
But I have been prescribed with a very powerful anti biotic, prior to this proposed cystoscopy.. magic!! One dose and I did a proper wee, ie I went to the toilet, no hesitancy, and a good strong stream of wee, not just a dribble! And last night I only had to get up 3 times instead of 4 or 5 or more.. what a difference its made. I slept really well in between toilet visits, so feel really well this morning. No frequency, no worry of piddling my pants, no feeling of burning in my bladder region, nor the constant feeling I have to wee, in fact I feel normal! If only this could last for ever?
Too much information? Well I did warn you!
Chrisxx
Although we have loads of gardening to do, mainly planting all the plants I've grown from seed, Dh and I decided to go out Wednesday afternoon. I really didn't want to go far, so we just decided a walk on the front promenade would be good, trusting we'd find a parking space. Living in a holiday seaside town, it can be very difficult to park with a view of the sea.
But as luck would have it, there was a space right by our favourite pavement kiosk, Booths, good coffee and seats with a view of the sea. In fact you can see across the Bristol Channel to Cornwell!
1. They move on, they don't waste time feeling sorry for themselves.
2. They embrace change and welcome challenges.
3. They stay happy and don't waste energy on things that they can't control.
4. They are kind, fair and unafraid to speak up.
5. They are willing to take calculated risks.
6. They celebrate the success of others and don't resent that success.
And most of all they have hope!
I've finished the book and I loved it all the way through; it was a long book!
Thank goodness for our garden, its keeping me sane,, yesterday I had a telephone appointment with the Urology Consultant. The appointment was made 10 days ago, and I've been dreading it. It was with a different Dr to the one I saw in March. I was half expecting him to say, as I've been on these low dose anti-biotics a month, they'd see me next week for the cystoscopy! But no, whew! He explained that my lab tested urine sample showed a bug, that was resistant to the anti-biotics I'd been given. So he was writing to my own Dr to give him the results and for a prescription for a different anti-biotic. So see how that would go, with a possible appointment for the procedure in two weeks time. I feel more positive, because this will cover me through and after the cystoscopy.
I didn't sleep well the night before worrying about the phone call..
So I hoped to sleep last night, especially as I'd spent the afternoon in the garden.. we have a lot of seedlings to plant and I mean a lot.
I've planted the cosmos in a pot like last year and we have planted Dh's sweet peas in a pot with a rounded tall cane support and the Verbena Borealis we planted n one of the flower beds, but there are lots more to plant.
My seeds have done me proud, but it means I have a lot as well as veg to plant!
Did you see the interview with Prince Harry.. far for me to say, but he sounded like a young man who has lost his way. He said his father the king didn't want to know him. Did you hear him say he was sorry? I didn't so, although he says he wants to return here, he says to his country. Here to the country he turned his back on, left and then wrote a book criticizing his family.
I think he might have to do some serious groveling and even then he might not get the answers he is now asking for.
His wife Megan is starting all sorts of new ventures, as though there's not enough in her life. While his brother William and Catherine love to show their children, the Sussex's are keeping theirs off camera.
Given a choice I'd chose Will and Kate every time. Mum and daughter, on Charlotte's 10th birthday.
We had a super Saturday starting off with a visit to town. The sun was shining and even at just before 10:00 am, the temperature was 14.5C
M&S, The Coop and now Harrods; the loss of power in Spain and Portugal, all indicators of how reliant we are on technology.
Could we live without it? I don't know, I'm pretty reliant on it myself.. we order our food on line, I buy things I can't get locally on line, my meds are ordered on line and when I want to know something I look it up on line. So I am reliant on technology, more than I thought.
Could I live without it? When I was younger perhaps, although it took me several goes to pass my 2nd Class Guide badge where you had to light a fire with just 2 matches and twigs!! Ha ha.
I've read a lot of Apocalypses books and the main thing is water, so we always have supplies of bottled water. Did you realise you need power, so your water runs out of your tap, I think I did but hadn't given it much thought.
When I was still teaching and computers were first introduced, one Children's program, was setting up a Civilization and the children had to think what they would need. A water supply being the first so their 'dens' had to be near a river etc, a good program and I used to play it myself after school!
There is this book reduced to £99 from £140 but evidently its well worth the money.
Whew tis 'ot! Our weather station is registering 29.5C and the sensor is on the north side of our bungalow, on the patio SW facing, its 35C!! The small screen of the weather station has on it a little man, who is clothed according to the weather; today he's in the teeniest teeny, tiny pants! We've just had cheese and biscuits and a cold drink, not alcohol. that would be awful for my bladder! I've had a Mimms, a mock Pimms. It's sugar free lemonade and a table spoon of Balsamic vinegar, with slices of fruit.. hits the spot for me; a Slimming World drink.
I have the fan cooling me down. I'm a bit itchy, not just because its hot, but because we had baked salmon and green salad for lunch and I have an allergy to prawns and fish, but I can cope with a bit of head itching so aren't giving it up. I've dressed for the weather, a cotton tee shirt fabric dress and no waist slip! We're having to water the garden, but we always do, we're not going to let our trees and shrubs dry up. Although we have a meter we're happy to pay, we don't spend our money on anything else, plants and care of our garden. May be books as well!
I'm reading 'Homecoming,' by Kate Morton and I'm loving it. I may have read 'The Lake House.' but so long ago I can't remember.
And I'm really excited because she's written loads, more for me to read! I can't believe I've not read her books before.. this was a kindle offer. Although I like real physical books, I love my kindle. So easy to read, you can enlarge the font, and mines back lit so no need for a light at night and easy to carry around and light weight to hold in bed.
What would we do without books? Me? Perhaps some more house work. When I was a young mum I used to dust and vac every day!! I must have been mad, and must have worn the carpet thin! Thank goodness I came to my senses! These days I say to Dh, this carpet cost over £1,000 we're not wearing it and us out!! So once a week is enough and the carpet never looks as though it needs a vac!
We've had some rumbling, thunder? But the sky's still blue and the sun's shining.
Hope you've had a pleasant afternoon too!
Chrisxx
Not what you would expect, but our coast land is rich in nature. Locks Common is a wild and beautiful place with wild flowers in between the rocky out crops.