Wednesday, 24 December 2025
Tuesday, 23 December 2025
All sorted.
We have our groceries delivered and all this week we've been adding tasty things to our order, then having guilt feelings so taking them off the next day. But looking at our order yesterday several items had been dropped off our list, out of stock. One item was the cloves, which we need for our spicy red cabbage, so we decided we would have a trip to our local Coop. We do buy all our extra bits there and one of the cashiers, an elderly man used to work for my father as a young man! Small world!
It was refurbished in the summer and is now very modern with upright fridges and much wider aisles and it is a lot brighter too.
Big mistake! We saw a whole lot of very tasty bits, which were definitely not on the SW food plan, chocolate covered Florentines being one! They are delicious, we tried one as soon as we got home, but no cloves there either!
We were out quite a while, as I walk up and around all the aisles for my walking activity! By the time we came home I was very ready for the 'loo' I rushed in just in time, and it reminded me of the book, 'Elizabeth is Missing.' Maud her old friend, back from a shopping trip, rushes home for the toilet, but it is just too much for her and she sits on the toilet with her trousers still on!! If you're not an old lady you wouldn't think this funny, but being old myself I know exactly how this could happen!
When we reviewed our order later and checked all was there, no more items had dropped off, and they then had cloves! So all is well, we have to collect it all today Tuesday, as we failed to get a delivery date, but its all easy and very organised at the Tesco store..So we feel we're all sorted, are you?
Chrisxx
Saturday, 20 December 2025
Birthday
I like the fact its a camouflage colour! Can't wait to get it set up.
We're off to town for breakfast and in honour of my birthday, it has stopped raining!
Chrisxx
Friday, 19 December 2025
One problem of getting old!
Thursday, 18 December 2025
Good food, good company and getting cosy.
Late Tuesday afternoon I had a call from our Surgery re:- my blood test, my thyroxin dose is too low! I've been saying for months something was wrong, I was sleeping too heavily and dozing during the day and my weight loss had stopped and I was gaining! So now I shouldn't have to struggle so much to lose, except its Christmas so not following the SW plan..altho I won't go mad.
But we started Christmas yesterday, because we ate out with the Reading Group. And it was super, delish food, good company and a really nice Christmas Santa present. A jigsaw and a coloring book and Dh had a book about Wales and a packet of shortbread biscuits.
So a delightful afternoon. We came home and tried one of Dh's biscuits with a nice cup of tea!
I've bought myself some new nighties from a firm in Kent so I got changed into one early evening.. the sleeves are a bit long but otherwise perfect for me. This a model on the site. One of the things I like to do on cold, wet, winter nights is get cosy in my nightie, watching the TV, guess I must be getting old!
Wednesday, 17 December 2025
Great tv.
On Monday Ruth Jones was in a programme on TV showing and her friend Steve her home town, my home town, Porthcawl. It was super, seeing the places she loved, that I love too.
Tuesday, 16 December 2025
Chatting.
It was like Christmas of old with Dh and myself in the kitchen yesterday afternoon. We decided we would make a cake for Christmas, regardless of the fact we will be being careful re:-calories!
I had the recipe from my cousin and its one, where you melt the butter in a pan, add the fruit and sugar, allow it to cool and then add the rest of the ingredients. Dh got all the ingrediebts out of the cupboard and I weighed and followed the method.
While it was cooling down, we put it just outside the French Doors and sat inside keeping watch, just in case a cheeky magpie thought it would be a tasty treat and incase it rained.
We chatted about our childhood memories of the preparation for Christmas. Dh like myself had chicken, which was quite pricy years ago. I think ours was one from our back yard and Dh lived on a farm so his came from there.
I can remember sitting in the scullery with my grandmother, plucking the chicken, then she would burn any hard bits of the feathers left in the skin with a tightly rolled up piece of newspaper, a spill, with the end smoldering, it was called singe-ing. Then we made fresh bread crumbs, some for the stuffing and some for the bread sauce. Life in those times was labour intensive! Potatoes were peeled, and veg prepared all the night before.
My Aunt always arranged for someone dressed as Father Christmas to be at the front door, and I asked for my presents and I had to sing! I went to bed happy and my Aunts both had got me presents, any dolls were beautifully dressed, the one Aunt was dress maker. And like all children of that time pre-1950 in my stocking I had sweets and one present that I'd asked for.. there were usually bigger presents down stairs.
It was lovely chatting to my husband, we have always enjoyed each others company!
And here is the cake... 'Cacen byth yn methu' Never failure cake!
Chrisxx
Monday, 15 December 2025
Its the tree!
Sunday, 14 December 2025
Genuine or not?
It is difficult to give presents to your husband, wife, or partner.
Saturday, 13 December 2025
Cheesy Potatoes.
Friday, 12 December 2025
Thursday, 11 December 2025
How many days left??
Many thanks for the comments I've not had the best of days as I slept badly, I'm not thinking straight.. I'm very tired as I've spent quite a while going back and fro to the loo today? Why? I did get wet in the rain Tuesday morning and I really do believe that it effects you.. or it could be the little bit of spice, Dh put in the pasta for our evening meal, it hasn't been a bother before? Anyway I've been in the loo most of the day! ( But it is a lovely Comfortable height loo!)
It did mean me missing the Book Group, shame so I couldn't tell them face to face that I got to page 159 and then gave up. I jumped to the last chapter to confirm what I initially thought, boring, over wordy, repetitive and 1950s bias.. After all Josephine Tey died in 1952!
Grant, a Scotland Yard Police Officer is in hospital, recovering from an op. on a broken leg. He delves into various history books to investigate the mystery of the demise of the Princes in the Tower? Was it Richard 3rd? I suppose it is well written and some might find it a very interesting book, not me.
Thank you to those who suggested various medications. I have a multitude of meds, Estrogen cream and Pessaries, Neditol, which is a bladder relaxing drug and the wonderful paracetamol.. So I do have all the stuff to help.. the consultant offered me another drug, but it highers your blood pressure and altho I don't have high blood pressure, I was given it several years ago and the headache was unbearable. Suffered it for 4 weeks and then stopped them. There is no records of previous cystoscopies, scans, wee flows because I had them done in a foreign country... England! I have the same NHS number, but the Welsh health board is completely separate to the English board, so they have no records here.
We're trying to get Christmassy but I've been so tired its been a real effort. But all our cards are sent and this year I've sent two birthday cards separately instead of sending them together. My birthday is Christmas time too and I usually get both cards, birthday and Christmas in the same envelope, I don't mind but one friend always sent them separately which I really appreciated.
Each time I hear some one on TV say only.......... so many days till the 25th I think it can't be.. so we best put our best feet forward and get sorted! Are you?
Chrisxx
Wednesday, 10 December 2025
The Appointment!
When I saw the head Doctor of our Surgery last month, he gave me the Consultant Urologist's letter and suggested, that I write to the Consultant myself re: the vaccine for UTIs, so I did. I had the appointment yesterday afternoon and the Consultant who had said, that I qualified for the vaccine against UTIs then, yesterday went back on everything he had said, when I saw him in June. He's now saying I have to have a cystoscopy to determine, that I do need the vaccine.
He suggested next week or the week after, and I said not before Christmas. Dh interjected that my health was more important than Christmas, and I insisted after Christmas.
We left the hospital with me in tears, I was so disappointed.. when we arrived home Dh and I spoke about my decision to wait till after Christmas. He can't understand when I say after Christmas ... because I shouted I don't want to be eating my Christmas dinner sitting on the toilet, because that's what it would be like!! As it is I sometimes have my after dinner cuppa in the loo! grrrr they have no idea,,, men! I am like hundreds of other women who go to the toilet 3 times in the night and that's a good night. I've had 3 other cystoscopies, one without pre-anti-biotics and it was hell! I was wee-ing every 20 mins and then every hour and my bladder eventually calmed down after a couple of days. I can't understand why we have to have a procedure, when it is known to have a possible cause of an infection and pain.
So its after Christmas with some anti-biotics, at least I got those!
Chrisxx
Tuesday, 9 December 2025
Is it hormones?
Do you remember the days when nothing had to be posted..Each time we try a new SW recipe, I always ask Dh has he taken a photograph? Our own SW Face Book is full of photos of meals, I get Dh to look at some of them to tell him, 'Don't make me this!' Pale slices of meat, no sauce and over cooked greens, and even worse baked potato and no butter!! They lose lots of weight.
I post this sort of thing and my group of friends post similar things. The world of losing weight has to have fun in it, or you might as well hide away and cry.
Monday, 8 December 2025
The Monster has gone!
This large piece of drift wood arrived here last April and was named Lizzie.. quite a fuss was made of it with people coming to actually view it.
Sunday, 7 December 2025
My Tiny Happy Things
My Tiny Happy Things,
A beam of sunlight through a window.
My first cup of tea in the morning.
Warm toes in fluffy socks.
The smell of bedding that had been dried in the air.
My husband's hand on my back guiding me along.
His little kiss with his greeting 'Morning love' each day.
When I read those first few lines of a book and I know I'm going to love it.
A morning walking in the fresh sea air.
That first bud that opens on my favourite yellow rose.
A cosy evening at home with the curtains drawn against the winter rain.
These are mine, my tiny happy things.
Chrisxx
What are yours?
Saturday, 6 December 2025
An Australian Outback Crime Mystery
Have you ever read a book twice by mistake, I have and it was this book. It was a kindle so I could have returned it, but I couldn't remember the ending, so kept it. But when I got to the ending I realised why I couldn't remember it. It was an all revealing ending in just the last few pages and the real reason why Jenny Williams really went to the Australian outback, as a police officer wasn't solved, so a 'no' ending for me. But you might feel differently to me.
Jenny went to Cooper Pedy initially to find out what happened to her aunt and cousin who disappeared 9 years ago.. However a body found in one of the disused Opal mines became her main investigation. She had a few things to get over first, she was a young woman in a man's world and a boss who didn't want to face the real truth.. and there was the dry hot conditions, and the inconvenience of her belongings not arriving with her. So the writing was good, because I could feel the sweat running between my breasts and the red dust that covered everything. She was constantly in the laundry room washing the few clothes she had!
Thursday, 4 December 2025
Very interesting and feasible?
Christmas is the perfect time to pause and really think about the shepherds in the Nativity story. I mean, have you ever wondered why God chose them to be the first to hear about Jesus' birth? They weren’t religious leaders or powerful politicians. They were guys out in the fields doing what many considered a lowly job.
But here’s what absolutely amazes me: These weren’t just any shepherds. According to Jewish tradition, the shepherds near Bethlehem were raising lambs specifically for temple sacrifice in Jerusalem. These were Levitical shepherds — men from priestly families whose job was to ensure the Passover lambs remained perfect and without blemish for worship in God's house.
When the angels appeared to them that night, announcing the birth of a Savior “wrapped in strips of cloth and lying in a manger” (Luke 2:12), these shepherds would have immediately understood something we often miss. They knew exactly what to look for because this scene was familiar to them.
You see, when lambs were born in those fields, the shepherds would wrap them in strips of cloth to protect them from getting cut on rocky cave floors. They'd place the sheep in mangers to keep them safe. The swaddling cloth wasn’t just for warmth but also to prevent any blemishes that would disqualify the lambs from being acceptable sacrifices.
So when these shepherds found baby Jesus wrapped in similar cloth and lying in a manger, they would have recognized the profound symbolism. Here was the Lamb of God, born in the same manner as the sacrificial lambs they tended. This wasn’t coincidence; this was God’s story unfolding exactly as He planned.
And there’s even more hope woven in: The swaddling cloth Jesus was wrapped in likely came from old priestly garments, the same fabric used to make wicks for the temple menorah. Jesus was not only identified as the Lamb of God but also the Light of the World from His very first moments on earth.
I find such comfort in knowing that God chose ordinary people doing their everyday work to be the first witnesses of His greatest gift. These shepherds weren't perfect, and neither are we. But God saw them as worthy to receive and share the Good News.
The hope we find in the shepherds’ story is this: God meets us right where we are, in our ordinary moments, with His extraordinary love. Just as He chose shepherds tending their flocks, He chooses us in whatever field we find ourselves working. He has a covenant of friendship with us, sealed by the sacrifice of His Son, the Lamb who became our great High Priest.
Wednesday, 3 December 2025
No Red Ones!
I am happy but disappointed.. happy because my eyes are the same. My Macular Degeneration condition has not made any progress neither have the cataracts first diagnosed in 2005. So that is all good, but I so wanted glasses and I would have bought some, but there weren't any red rimmed ones!
She showed me pink ones, but to me they're old ladies glasses! And some were like Me-maw's from young Sheldon's grand mother's and Dh and I burst out laughing when we saw them!
It was tipping with rain when we came out of the opticians so I donned my plastic hood, I might look an old lady in it, but I'm not getting my hair wet when I've paid to have it styled!
Obviously this is not me, I \bought 8 of these and yes they flatten my hair, but a brush through and my hair is fine,
Tuesday, 2 December 2025
Us on a Monday!
We have an on line Welsh lesson on Monday mornings at 9:30 so we're up, showered and breakfasted ready, but its hard.. I've got used to taking my time.
It was a different tutor, because our usual one wasn't able to do it. And wow, the new one was hot off the mark. But it was excellent, we loved it and I learnt something I've been struggling to understand for a while.
When she asked us where we lived, of course we both said Porthcawl, we're in different rooms, she asked Dh did he knew me, and all the students laughed!
In the afternoon we did some house work; here's Dh cleaning under the sink,,, perhaps we've got too much cleaning stuff?
Monday, 1 December 2025
A Favourite Son?
There is such a lot of talk about Andrew and Sarah, you hardly know who believe, Was Andrew the late Queens favourite son, was he as wild as people make him out to be? Known as 'Randy Andy' in his younger days, then tangled up in the Epstein scandal? His ex wife Sarah has some stories to live down to too.
Sunday, 30 November 2025
You only get one!
Be too much,
Be extra,
Live large,
Smile big,
Laugh hard.
Celebrate your d*nm self.
Open your heart,
Express your emotions,
Use your words,
Giggle,
Dance,
Soak in the sun,
Splash in the waves,
Breath deep and love your life..
You only get one.
Saturday, 29 November 2025
My town.
Our town isn't known for its Christmas lights, but the shops always look good.. not quite dressed for Christmas yet. but still pretty. This is the flower shop with the lovely seasonal flowers and plants on view.
I love this shop and buy a lot of plants from them. People have the opinion that they are expensive, but they are top quality plants and I've never had a failure from there. In this display there is a small artificial snowdrop plant that has silver sparkles on it and I want it!! It will look super in our front pots in all the greenery!The Maple shops are lovely, here is the Children's shop, Love those little dolls displayed as though in windows. Maple is a firm and there are 6 shops all different. We like the kitchen shop too.
A lot of people here think town is not so good, but it is and there are some superb shops here. Someone started talking to me in one of the cafes a little while ago.( Well I might have said Hello to her first!' ) And she had bags full of things bought here and couldn't find enough good things to say, how nice our little town was. She was complaining that Swansea had lost a lot of shops and certainly didn't have gift shops there, as we have here... anyway we love it and it fulfils our needs.. and altho I'm not a big advocate of Aldi, it suits me for walking on wet days!!
Friday, 28 November 2025
Aches and pains, but it was worth it!
I do have a lot of pots of spring bulbs, but having seen Monty's on Gardener's World, and all his ready planted, I wanted more! So a few evening ago with nothing of interest on TV, I looked for some bulbs I fancied..
I know some people don't like Grape Hyacinths but I love them and these white ones are so pretty..
I fancied these yellow crocus in my shallow bowl shaped pot..we have an assortment of colours planted in our front lawn, but they've all come up purple!Thursday, 27 November 2025
Pam Ayres.
FIFTY SHADES OF GREY BY PAM AYRES
Wednesday, 26 November 2025
None so queer as folk!
Yesterday afternoon was our end of year U3a Gardening group meeting. Called a 'Celebration of a Successful Garden Club year' and took the form of a Bring and Share meal.
Tuesday, 25 November 2025
Old recipes.
I felt a bit foolish yesterday, as Dh wanted a recipe for a cake and I knew I had it in my folder of loose recipes.
So as I started to go through it, all sorts of recipes came to the fro.. some written by my Aunty Glad. Ginger Beer, Sticky Jaw Toffee, A Boiled cake, Welsh cakes! Her writing was very rounded and clear, but now faded and the papers stained and creased, where I had used them.
I could hear her voice telling me what to do and I was a bit weepy, she died 1990 so many years ago, but her voice sounded clear in my ear.
How come our minds can do that after so many years have passed?
Monday, 24 November 2025
Last Christmas
Sunday, 23 November 2025
Old Friends!
Yesterday morning a friend came for coffee, we were in school together when we were 7 and altho her family moved away for a few years we kept in touch.
We came from vastly different back grounds. Her father had two shops in the town, news agents, one was in the village just outside of town which she managed. I used to call in to see her with my children, when we lived there in the sixties and she used to spoil my children allowing them to chose a book or a small toy as well as giving them sweets.
We laughed and laughed yesterday., when I used to threaten her with the dentistry bills I might have to pay out with all the sweets they ate from her.
I do have some lovely photo graphs of my two children and her outside the shop in the brilliant sunshine, I must look it up and others.
I always said my second child's labour and delivery was easy, because she had driven me in her little mini at top speed to the hospital over every bump there was on the road!
It was lovely chatting yesterday and remembering those sunny days when we were young. We've known each other for 75 years!
Chrisxx
Saturday, 22 November 2025
You have to laugh!
It was -1C when we were getting in the car to go to SW yesterday morning, although I didn't feel cold as I was wearing winter weight clothes, instead of my thin cotton dress.. I was expecting the scales to show a gain with the extra weight from my clothes, but no, I maintained my weight. I was very pleased, as I knew my extra clothes weighed 1.5lbs, yes I had weighed them! So now a new week and a downward trend to get below a certain weight before the big 'day.
And this is so laughable I had to write about it. It seems that in an area in UK, a council has asked gardeners, who use the garden refuse bins, to place them in a sunny spot in this cold weather, because the bins are freezing to the ground and the operatives are unable to lift them to empty then! Would you believe it?? It was even suggested to put them in a shed, till it was close to collection time to keep them warm! We don't know what time our garden waste is emptied as it varies from fortnight to fortnight, we actually pay £45 for 20 weeks and there's no room in our shed, is there room in yours?
Laugh and keep laughing, it will keep us warm!
Chrisxx
Thursday, 20 November 2025
Book Group
Our monthly book group in the library has been moved to 12:00 md, so no hanging around yesterday, as we had to get into town, park and then walk to the library. Altho of late we've been showering fairly early, well I say early, but before 10 am, so probably late for a lot of people. Its because if I'm awake in the night, when I do get back to sleep, I sleep on past our usual get up time.
We spent the first few minutes discussing our Christmas meal booked in December at the Italian restaurant, where we went to for Dh's birthday. He and I have already decided what we'll have! Once we did get round to discussing the book, the general opinion was it was a 'nice' read, nothing to write home about.. so 'The Keeper of Lost Things' was shelved.... but then we were joined by a young man, who had come to join our group and had read the book.
He had delved deeply into the book and had formed opinions on the characters, their emotional relationships, their inner feelings and compared it to another book and film. He never stopped talking, I had to jump in when he took a breath, to say 'Moving on,' what did one of the other members think about it. So that's going to be interesting in the future if he comes back. He had come on the bus from Maesteg, so why to our little library?
Our next read is Josephine Tey's, 'The Daughter of Time' so an easy read. I read it years ago. but can't remember it!
Wednesday, 19 November 2025
How I made the collage, step by step.
I did this on my phone, but I must take better photographs!
On your phone select Gallery
1.Select 'create'
2.Select pics you want.
3. Under the pics looking at your phone, select configuration you want.
4 Click save
5. I then emailed it to myself, so it was in a folder on my laptop
I can't see another way to be able to use it on my laptop at the moment.
Hope this helps
Chrisxx
I can do it!
So many silly little things give me a joy in my heart.. I have at last found out how to group photos and I'm thrilled I can.
Yesterday because it was cold and wet our walk was in the new big B&M in Bridgend, and the shelves were full of Christmas decorations and toys. So gave me the opportunity to take some pics and play.
Here are my results, not wonderful but a start.
Tuesday, 18 November 2025
Can't wait for bed time!!
Isn't it lovely when your day goes just right? I wanted a copy of Kristin Hannah's 'Winter Garden.' An ebook via my kindle was the cheapest, so I bought it to read in bed. Annoyingly it failed to down load. So I cancelled it, waited a bit, bought it again.. Didn't down load again, so cancelled it again. I was really disappointed, but looked and found a paper backed copy on ebay, from Awesome books, only £4.91, cheaper than an ebook and no postage. The kindle version was £5.99!
It arrived yesterday via the Post Office, I saw the Post man through the kitchen window and rushed to the front door and had a lovely chat with him. He thought our car number plate was Ipswich, in fact its a London one, although we bought it in Suffolk So I practically had his life history, as his in laws are from Suffolk. It was really nice hearing about him, 'I'm not Welsh,' he said, just living here. And indeed he didn't sound Welsh either. I felt proud to say I was from here, born here and moved back home here four and a half years ago.
I couldn't wait to get to bed to read my Kristin Hannah book last night. Amazon have returned my money, I've never had a problem with money being returned by Amazon.
So I was a very happy 'bunny' what bliss!!
Chrisxx





