Tuesday, 16 December 2025

Chatting.

 It was like Christmas of old with Dh and myself in the kitchen yesterday afternoon. We decided we would make a cake for Christmas, regardless of the fact we will be being careful re:-calories!

I had the recipe from my cousin and its one, where you melt the butter in a pan, add the fruit and sugar, allow it to cool and then add the rest of the ingredients. Dh got all the ingrediebts out of the cupboard and I weighed and followed the method.

While it was cooling down, we put it just outside the French Doors and sat inside keeping watch, just in case a cheeky magpie thought it would be a tasty treat and incase it rained.

We chatted about our childhood memories of the preparation for Christmas. Dh like myself had chicken, which was quite pricy years ago. I think ours was one from our back yard and Dh lived on a farm so his came from  there. 

I can remember sitting in the scullery with my grandmother, plucking the chicken, then she would burn any hard bits of the feathers left in the skin with a  tightly rolled up piece of newspaper, a spill, with the end smoldering, it was called singe-ing. Then we made fresh bread crumbs, some for the stuffing and some for the bread sauce. Life in those times was labour intensive! Potatoes were peeled, and veg prepared all the night before.

My Aunt always arranged for someone dressed as Father Christmas to be at the front door, and I asked for my presents and I had to sing! I went to bed happy and my Aunts both had got me presents, any dolls were beautifully dressed, the one Aunt was dress maker.  And like all children of that time pre-1950 in my stocking I had sweets and one present that I'd asked for.. there were usually bigger presents down stairs.

It was lovely chatting to my husband, we have always enjoyed each others company!

And here is the cake... 'Cacen byth yn methu'  Never failure cake!

Chrisxx

Monday, 15 December 2025

Its the tree!

 


Its not  tipping over its my photography!
Dh and I dressed our tree last week and here it is!
Not the modern  style but what we like. Some of the ornaments are presents from special friends of mine who are no longer with us, so extra special.

Chrisxx

Sunday, 14 December 2025

Genuine or not?

 It is difficult to give presents to your husband, wife, or partner.


Dh and I do tell each other, what we'd like.  It used to be I gave him three of four for him to choose one. But of course he gave me more than one.. So now I just say one item. I usually know what he'd like, especially if a favourite author of his has a new book out and I usually get him a new jumper too, and he loves dark chocolate. Really I say to him , they are just token gifts because if we wanted something, we'd buy it.

I am careful what I look at on line because he might assume I want it. But I have always said to him what I'd like. because  he can't read my mind!
I pointed these little birds our to him the other day and immediately he asked should he get them for me? 
No, I just wanted to show them to him, because they are supposed to be made out of sea glass? I'm a bit suspicious because there were a lot for sale, and personally I've never  seen such dark colours in sea glass.
What do you think, are they genuine sea glass or not?

Chrisxx


Saturday, 13 December 2025

Cheesy Potatoes.

 


Ingredients

11/2  pounds about 650g potatoes, peeled  and cut into chunks.
I medium onion,  or shallot chopped.
160g gruyere cheese
200g thick cream
100g bacon lardons
Tbs spoon fresh thyme.
Knob butter
Tsp Salt
1/2 tsp white pepper

Method.

Par boil potatoes, keep chunks whole, allow to cool.
Melt butter and gently soften onion, do not brown, allow to cool.
Fry lardons so fat is rendered.
Grate Cheese in a bowl add cream, salt and pepper and onion and thyme.
Mix together.
Gently add potato and lardons.
Pour into a heat proof dish 
Cook centre of the oven at 160C (Mediun oven gas 4/5)
Check after 20 mins, it should be bubbling.
Allow extra 5 to 10 mins to make sure cheese has cooked if not bubbling.

Serve with cold meats or as an additional veg with a roast dinner.

Very tasty and excellent on Boxing Day!

Chrisxx

Thursday, 11 December 2025

How many days left??

 Many thanks for the comments  I've not had the best of days as I slept badly, I'm not thinking straight.. I'm very tired as I've spent quite a while going back and fro to the loo today? Why? I did get wet in the rain Tuesday morning and I really do believe that it effects you.. or it could be the little bit of spice, Dh put in the pasta for our evening meal, it hasn't been a bother before? Anyway I've been in the loo most of the day! ( But it is a lovely Comfortable height loo!)

It did mean me missing the Book Group, shame so I couldn't tell them face to face that I got to page 159 and then gave up. I jumped to the last chapter to confirm what I initially thought, boring, over wordy, repetitive and 1950s bias.. After all Josephine Tey died in 1952! 

Grant, a Scotland Yard Police Officer is in hospital, recovering from an op. on a broken leg. He delves into various history books to investigate the mystery of the demise of the Princes in the Tower? Was it Richard 3rd?  I suppose it is well written and some might find it a very interesting book, not me.

Thank you to those who suggested various medications. I have a multitude of meds, Estrogen cream and Pessaries, Neditol, which is a bladder relaxing drug and the wonderful paracetamol..  So I do have all the stuff to help.. the consultant offered me another drug, but it highers your blood pressure and altho I don't have high blood pressure, I was given it several years ago and the headache was unbearable. Suffered it for 4 weeks and then stopped them. There is no records of previous cystoscopies, scans, wee flows because I had them done in a foreign country... England! I have the same NHS number, but the Welsh health board is completely separate to the English board, so they have no records here.

We're trying to get Christmassy but I've been so tired its been a real effort. But all our cards are sent and this year I've sent two birthday cards separately instead of  sending them together. My birthday is Christmas time too and I usually get both cards, birthday and Christmas in the same envelope, I don't mind but one friend always sent them separately which I really appreciated.

Each time I hear some one on TV say only.......... so many days till the 25th I think it can't be.. so we best put our best feet forward and get sorted! Are you?

Chrisxx

Wednesday, 10 December 2025

The Appointment!

 When I saw the head Doctor of our Surgery last month, he gave me the Consultant Urologist's letter and suggested, that I write to the Consultant myself re: the vaccine for UTIs, so I did. I had the appointment yesterday afternoon and the Consultant who had said,  that I qualified for the vaccine against UTIs then, yesterday went back on everything he had said, when I saw him in June. He's now saying I have to have a cystoscopy to determine, that I do need the vaccine.

He suggested next week or the week after, and I said not before Christmas. Dh interjected that my health was more important than Christmas, and I insisted after Christmas.

We left the hospital with me in tears, I was so disappointed.. when we arrived home Dh and I spoke about my decision to wait till after Christmas.  He can't understand when I say after Christmas ... because I shouted I don't want to be eating my Christmas dinner sitting on the toilet, because that's what it would be like!!   As it is I sometimes have my after dinner cuppa in the loo!  grrrr they have no idea,,, men! I am like hundreds of other women who go to the toilet 3  times in the night and  that's a good night. I've had 3 other cystoscopies, one without pre-anti-biotics and it was hell! I was wee-ing every 20 mins and then every hour and my bladder eventually calmed down after a couple of days. I can't understand why we have to have a procedure, when it is known to have a possible cause of an infection and pain.

So its after Christmas with some anti-biotics, at least I got those!

                            Chrisxx

Tuesday, 9 December 2025

Is it hormones?

Do you remember the days when nothing had to be posted..Each time we try a new SW recipe, I always ask Dh has he taken a photograph? Our own SW Face Book is full of photos of meals, I get Dh to look at some of them to tell him, 'Don't make me this!' Pale slices of  meat, no sauce and over cooked greens, and even worse baked potato and no butter!! They lose lots of weight.

I post this sort of thing and my group of friends post similar things. The world of losing weight has to have fun in it, or you might as well hide away and cry.

Do you know there are some SW members who take a container of Tuna Pasta with them, when they go out with family for meals and say they are on a special diet, so have to eat their own food! I couldn't do that! I'd make some wise choices, perhaps no pudding. 

Our Consultant is very animated and there are no boring moments in our meetings.
She posts herself running in the mornings, sometimes in the dark!
Yes she is very committed to her groups and very good.
I seem to be in a not losing mode at the moment. I'm trying really hard and not getting anywhere.. I have an appointment Friday morning for a blood test, and then hope to get a follow up appointment with a Dr, to see if I can get my thyroxin dose changed.. Just have to be up and awake for the 8 o'clock scramble on the phone! 

Chrisxx

Monday, 8 December 2025

The Monster has gone!

 This large piece of drift wood arrived here last April and was named Lizzie.. quite a fuss was made of it with people coming to actually view it.


Children and some adults  too climbed all over it and false bits added to make it look like a monster. Each high tide there were messages on Face Book asking was Lizzie still there and it survived till now, close on 9 months. The storm over the weekend with very high tides saw its end. Lifted by the crashing waves it ended up further along the coast, nearer the pier without its strutting legs and a badly bashed about.. Lizzie is no more!
Shame?  But where did it come from? And when did such a great tree first fall.. a mystery, it will be missed.

Chrisxx 

Sunday, 7 December 2025

My Tiny Happy Things

 My Tiny Happy Things,


A beam of sunlight through a window.

My first cup of tea in the morning.

Warm toes in fluffy socks.

The smell of bedding that had been dried in the air.

My husband's hand on my back guiding me along.

His little kiss with his greeting 'Morning love' each day.

When I read those first few lines of a book and I know I'm going to love it.

A morning walking in the fresh sea air.

That first bud that opens on my favourite yellow rose.

A cosy evening at home with the curtains drawn against the winter rain.

These are mine, my tiny happy things.

Chrisxx

What are yours?